Wat? Got stead or not? no la... sad to say... no one wans me lolx so im better off observing how couples come abt and how they break lol well couples usually come abt with these reasons: Love at first Sight, Long time friends, Old Friends(Fren who u haven meet in years), ur old crush, Break and made up, both keep arguing until pair up, met in bar, one night stand, met coincidentally like 3-4 times, blind date, match making, there can be alot more ways to pair up couples...

well i did confess i liked a girl in sec sch... but tio reject... lucky still can be friends arh... i also dunno why 2 person cannot be friends even after tio reject... no face to see him/her? feel uneasy? no these are not fit to be excuses... not being able to be couples doesnt mean no to friends too... if one sees it this way, he/she broods over the past too much... but i regret saying one thing to that girl... when she depart from Singapore, i sent her a farewell gift... man why i wrote that word ARGH~ i wrote friends forever... =_________=

when love happens between a couple, it doesnt mean only sex can prove theres love hor -.- a good loving couple need some conditions to be successful as a couple, like having trust between each other, dun 2 timer, at least know wat he/she likes to eat, know his/her habits well enough(if its a bad habit, dun reproach, improvise)

i may not be able to think wat a lady thinks like when shes in love... but some of these maybe wat they need... Secure, Care, Concern, Feel like being loved, being happy... these are the basic ya true basic... but not easy to accomplish... all ladies are different when in love... some are possesive, some go by the way of contentment... like making their partner happy is their only objective... but i dun think thats the right way to be in a relationship... Being in love yes u need to make ur partner happy... but are u happy urself? if u do not... it means its not going well =X

for guys... guys usually dun care much, think that she wont mind this or that... tho some do care... but wat a guy should do to get in the right way is... dun care too much and not too less... jus the right amount of care and concern is ok... like if he didnt meet her today... at least message her at the end of the day to chat abt wat happened that day, sweet talk her, and share with her ur happyness~ when u meet up with her, a nice hug would be nice(gives her secure), if shopping well its the norm way, guys carry the stuff while the ladies add on to the workload lol... even if ur bored out or really tired... at least give her some opinion of wat u think of the clothes/acc she chose... maybe nex time u would see her wearing the dress u like and be happier ^^

trust between a couple is not very easy to build up but very easy to break so becareful not to do anything that hurts some wounds never really heal u know~
To feel secure with ur partner, easy... dun do anything that worries one another ^^
For care and concern, like the way i said... even if didnt meet can still communicate thru messengers/phone/email... knowing each others' habits well is also a need...

there are alot of perfect couples out there... with real love and understanding... but we shouldnt take them as our role model... we all have our own ways of loving our partner... different ppl different habits, behavior and feelings... However, there are more break ups nowadays... ard me there are some frens who broke up... some happy ending some sad... but the reasons for break ups always seems not valid... reasons like we arent compatible bah... that is not a reason... its jus that u think too much... if one thinks that both are not compatible, why get into relationship in the first place? dun use this excuse as a reason... jus not right... if both werent compatible it will lead to arguing and in the end, knowing each other more...

i have a friend hu jus broke up with his gf... the reason seems to be that the girl thinks that the relationship wont last long... no this is not even a reason for a break up... if u have trust, hope for this relationship and most importantly u love ur partner, u should be trying ur best to maintain the relationship... not think negatively... and relationship is between 2 person... dun mind wat others say... even ur frens... so long as u trust and love ur partner, dun do anything to hurt him/her and she/he wont hurt u likewise

getting into relationship is easy... the difficult part is maintaining it... so think real carefully whether u should go into one... dun let it become a burden to u... let it bring happyness to u =)